Some red-flag tips to help you assess how life is progressing for your loved ones.

Elders don’t want to bother their children and will often
hide what’s happening — even when they know they need help.

Here are some telltale signs:

            Is there
clutter?

            Is mail
piling up or are science projects growing in the refrigerator?

            Has the
wash been done or is clothing stained with more than pumpkin pie?

            Do simpler
tasks seem confusing?

            Is your
loved one losing weight?

            Is there
paranoia about friends and neighbors?

            Are you
afraid to drive with your grandparents?

            Have you
noticed recent dents in their car?

            Have bills
piled up, have balance statements not been adjusted or, if bills are auto-pay,
are there double payments?